(You Can Copy This Routine Too!)
Mornings are important, but evenings are where I protect my sleep, recovery, and sanity. With ADHD, winding down used to be a real struggle. My brain would race, I’d doom-scroll, and I’d still be wired at midnight.
After a lot of trial and error, I’ve built a realistic evening wind-down routine that actually works for my busy life (full-time job, family, dogs, and life responsibilities). It’s not perfect every night, but it’s consistent enough to make a big difference.
Here’s exactly what I do:
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Why a Good Evening Routine Matters with ADHD
A solid wind-down helps:
- Lower cortisol from the day
- Reduce decision fatigue
- Calm a racing mind
- Improve sleep quality (which makes mornings so much better)
My Realistic Evening Wind-Down Routine
Total time: About 45–75 minutes (flexible)
1. Screen Curfew (1 hour before bed)
I put my phone on Do Not Disturb and avoid bright screens. If I need to use my phone, I use Night Shift + blue light blocking glasses.
2. Light Nourishment & Supplements
- Magnesium Bisglycinate (my evening staple for calm and sleep)
- Sometimes a small high-protein snack if I’m hungry (helps stabilize blood sugar)
- Herbal tea (chamomile, lemon balm, or tulsi)
3. Body & Mind Reset (10–15 minutes)
- Quick shower or wash face
- Gentle stretching or foam rolling
- Brux night guard in (I started using this consistently this year)
4. Brain Dump & Planning
I spend 5 minutes journaling:
- 3 things I’m grateful for
- Brain dump of tomorrow’s tasks (so they stop spinning in my head)
- Quick review of what went well today
5. Reading or Calm Content
I read a physical book or listen to a low-key podcast/audiobook (nothing too stimulating).
6. Lights Out Routine
- Consistent bedtime (I aim for the same window most nights)
- White noise or fan for sound
- On a tough night, I’ll put on a sleep frequency video from YouTube
- Room as dark and cool as possible
My Honest Results
Since making this routine more consistent:
- Falling asleep faster
- Fewer middle-of-the-night wake-ups
- Better morning energy and mood
- Less next-day overwhelm and ADHD paralysis
It’s not magical, but it compounds.
Tips for ADHD Brains
- Keep it simple – start with just 2–3 steps
- Make it enjoyable (nice pajamas, favorite tea, etc.)
- Use visual cues (same spot for your journal, etc.)
- Be kind to yourself on off nights. Consistency > perfection
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Final Thoughts
A good evening wind-down is one of the kindest things you can do for your future self. It supports everything else; better sleep leads to better energy, focus, and progress on your goals.
I’m still refining mine, but this version has brought real peace to my evenings.
What about you? Do you have an evening routine? What helps you wind down with ADHD? Share in the comments, I read every one!
-Mere Penny
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